THIS WEEKEND IN CHICAGO – Getting into the Christmas Spirit!

Tis the season, calligraphy style hand lettering design in trendy pink, cold green, gold colors

Two holidays down and one left to go!  It’s time to get into the Christmas spirit with the following holiday events for this weekend.

If you’ve missed Chicago’s 110th Christmas Tree Lighting ceremony this past Friday, don’t fret.  The City of Chicago Christmas Tree will remain on display until early January at Millennium Park (55 N. Michigan Ave.) near Washington Street and Michigan Avenue in the Loop.  This year’s tree is a 45-foot Colorado Blue Spruce donated by the De La Cruz family of Darien, IL and is decorated with tons of twinkling lights and crowned with an illuminated star!

The largest outdoor and indoor holiday experience is being held at Navy Pier (600 E. Grand Ave.) in the Streeterville neighborhood through December 31stLight Up The Lake features dazzling outdoor lakefront light displays, an outdoor ice skating rink with a breathtaking backdrop of Lake Michigan, toasty firepits to cozy up at while roasting s’mores, fireworks on Saturdays, and more.  The indoor winter fun is held at the gigantic 170,000 square foot Festival Hall featuring kiddie train rides, a regulation-size Alpine ice-skating rink, a 600,000-bulb light show made up of themed sculptures, a Winter Wonderfest Forest, and more.  Embrace the holiday season with this perfect balance of free and ticketed activities for guests of all ages!

Check out the new and exciting displays, photo ops, and interactive programming for this year’s ZooLights held at Lincoln Park Zoo (2400 N. Cannon Dr.) in the Lincoln Park neighborhood now through January 7, 2024.  Once again, over 2.5 million LED lights including hundreds of luminous LED displays, and a variety of seasonal experiences will be featured along with carolers, glow toys, hot chocolate, firepits for roasting s’mores, and professional ice carvers!

A one-of-a-kind experience awaits you at Gallagher Way (3635 N. Clark St.) in the Wrigleyville neighborhood now through January 7, 2024.  Wintrust’s Winterland at Gallagher Way offers wintry attractions inside historic Wrigley Field which includes a 12,000 square foot ice rink for ice skating and ice bumper cars, on-field games, a miniature infield train, carnival rides and games, and more!

Explore rich holiday traditions from around the globe at this year’s Christmas Around the World at the Museum of Science & Industry (5700 S. Lake Shore Dr.) in the Hyde Park neighborhood now through January 7, 2024.  Once again, its four-story Grand Tree is surrounded by over 50 trees representing Chicago’s various communities showcasing their holiday celebrations.  For more seasonal cheer, visit the Holidays of Light exhibit recognizing the traditions of Chinese New Year, Diwali, Kwanzaa, Ramadan, Hanukkah, Visakha Puja Day, and St. Lucia Day.  Don’t forget to stop by and visit Santa in his festive photo studio for your holiday souvenir photo!

Finally, Chicago’s original Hanukkah bar returns by popular demand for its third year in a row.  8 Crazy Nights takes over The Graystone Tavern (3441 N. Sheffield Ave.) in the Wrigleyville neighborhood now through January 7, 2024.  In addition to Graystone’s customary 14,000+ blue and white lights and Hanukkah decorations throughout the indoor area, its beer garden has been weather-proofed for those who wish to take their celebrating outdoors.  Plus, guests can dine on Hanukkah classics such as matzo ball soup, latkes, and more, as well as play board games like Mitzvah Match, Schmear Build-A-Bagel card game, Jewish Guess Who, and more!

Sue Moss and Dean’s Team Chicago

Neighborhood News: ‘Disney100: The Exhibition’ celebrates a century of magic in Logan Square

Disney's Mickey and Minnie mouse cartoon character figurines

The Walt Disney Company began “with a mouse and a dream” a century ago. It was the dream of a Chicago boy named Walter Elias Disneyand his brother Roy. Walt Disney was born on December 5, 1901, at 1249 Tripp Avenue, in Chicago’s Hermosa neighborhood. His home is now a museum

After attending McKinley High School and cartooning for the school newspaper, he and his brother established Laugh-O-Gram Studio, and moved to Hollywood in July 1923 at age 21, according to Wikipedia sources.Although New York was the center of the cartoon industry, he was attracted to Los Angeles because his brother was convalescing from tuberculosis there, and Disney hoped to become a live-action film director. Mickey Mouse first appeared in May 1928.

The rest, as they say, is Disney magic. 

Lots more Disney magic will be on display at Logan Square’s Disney100: The Exhibition, at the  Exhibition Hub Art Center, 2367 W. Logan Boulevard, (formerly known as the Windy City Fieldhouse) now through early 2024. 

Disney-philes young and old can delight in more than 250 artifacts and props, costumes from Disney classics, and explore enchanting galleries that bring the magic of Disney to life. Images and displays from the recent acquisitions of Pixar, Star Wars, and MARVEL sit along the likes of Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs (1937) and recent releases such as Encanto (2021). 

Secret Chicago promises poses with the ‘Incredibles Family’ from Disney and Pixar’s The Incredibles(2004), or snapping a photo with Mickey, Goofy, or Dopey.

According to a Sun-Times article, there’s even a hologram of Walt Disney. As the Sun-Times recounts. “People will actually see the man himself.”

The date of the opening of Disney100 coincides with Mickey Mouse and Minnie Mouse’s birthday. The pair made their first on-screen appearance in Steamboat Willie, which premiered in New York City on November 18, 1928. 

Disney100: The Exhibition’s hours are Monday and Wednesday– Friday 9:30am–7pm (last session 5:30pm), Saturday, 9am–8:30pm (last session 7pm), and Sunday, 9am–7pm (last session 5:30pm). The exhibit is closed on Tuesdays. For tickets, click here.

Walt Disney Day in Chicago on December 5

The Sun-Times also mentions another Disney celebration: December 5 is ‘Walt Disney Day’ in Chicago. The Walt Disney Birthplace at (a rezoned) 2156 N. Tripp Avenue plans to have treats, music and other holiday-themed activities outside the home on that day. For more information, click here.

Alison Moran-Powers and Dean’s Team Chicago

Restaurant Review: For a nice change of pace, try West Loop’s Gyu-Kaku Japanese BBQ

Wagyu beef on a grill with bell peppers and onions

If you’re tired of turkey and stuffing after this week’s celebration, a great alternative for dining on Friday or any other night might be Gyu-Kaku, a charming Japanese BBQ in the West Loop. 

It was at Gyu-Kaku that I learned that “small plates” are a universal phenomenon.

My friends and I sampled from the Happy Hour menu (Monday–Friday 2pm–5pm,) where prices are reduced, sometimes by half, on their regular menu. And for someone like me, who’s never experienced Japanese BBQ before, it was a great introduction!

Gyu-Kaku, or “Horn of the Bull” in Japanese, according to its website, provides an authentic Japanese yakiniku (grilled barbecue) dining experience where customers share premium cooked meats over a flaming smokeless grill, while sipping on Japanese sake, shochu, and frosty cold beers. (Or, one of their tasty tropical drinks! I recommend their Tropical Sunshine!)

We shared several small plates from their huge menu, including Yuzu Shishito Peppers which were fried shishito chili peppers in Japanese yuzu citrus sauce. While they promise that they’re “almost always mild,” my friend warned me that every ninth or tenth might be …spicy! Delicious, tangy and tender. Another friend had their Napa Kimchi Napa Kimchi, which was lightly spicy pickled cabbage. Another friend had us salivating over their Spicy Addicting Cucumber, which was fresh cucumbers in crunchy garlic chili oil, with a dash of Shio Tare, sesame oil, and sesame seeds.

I was crazy for their Vegetarian Bibimbap, a huge bowl of seasoned rice festooned with lightly steamed asparagus, mushrooms, broccoli, and other vegetables. I also appreciated the handy guides and attentive servers who told you exactly how long meats and fish should cook. 

My friends and I enjoyed cooking proteins such as fresh shrimp, spicy pork, and thinly sliced steak. We shared it all while laughing and talking. 

A word about the service: they’re attentive, yet not intrusive. They work overtime to make sure you understand their cooking concept and make sure you enjoy the process as much as their food. 

I wished I’d had room for dessert! S’mores sounded like such a fun way to use the smokeless barbecue to end the meal. Also, they had mochi and tea ice cream, and several other selections. Next time!

I’m not the only one who’s impressed. So is this Open Table reviewer:

“Always a fun experience as a date or with a group great meal prices for what you get the cocktails are sweet. It is a great interactive experience. I personally enjoyed going on a date or bringing a group of friends and it’s always fun and the flavor is always up to par.”

Gyu-Kaku Japanese BBQ is located at 1364 W. Randolph. They are open Sunday–Thursday from 11am–10pm, and Friday and Saturday, 11am-11pm. Reservations are recommended. Click here.

Thankful for you!! 

Alison Moran-Powers and Dean’s Team Chicago

Chicago Home and Lifestyles – Setting family boundaries

A businessman and woman have troubles understanding each other vector illustration

This time of year is a good time to think about setting and keeping boundaries, especially around family. If you find yourself breaking out in a cold sweat, or if your heart starts racing at the thought of attending the family Thanksgiving, it might be good for you to keep reading. You need to set a standard for how you want to be treated. Anyone can benefit, especially those who have spent years in a toxic family environment. Standards and boundaries can be beneficial for both the person setting them and the person on the receiving end!

First, you need to communicate your boundaries clearly and calmly. Follow a basic conversation template. “If you say or do X, I will have to do Y”. It could be as simple as telling a parent, “If you make a remark about my outfit, I will need to leave the table”. It can even get to the point where you can say, “If you continue to disrespect my partner, we won’t be able to attend family dinners anymore.” This is not a request; it simply makes clear what you will not tolerate. But always follow through.

You can give a person the chance to course correct. You can tell your cousin, “I’m not OK with being talked to like that, if you continue, I will have to leave.” Then do just that if they persist. You can also explain why you are asking for a particular boundary. If your grandmother pushes food at you and won’t stop you can simply say, “The food is delicious, I am trying to eat a little healthier now and enjoyed the serving I had. Perhaps I could take some home to enjoy tomorrow.” Tell her what a wonderful time you are having. Maybe she just wants you to enjoy your time at home and food is her love language. 

Don’t let yourself become so invested in how others react to you. Oftentimes it’s not ill-will that causes family to act the way they do. It can be simply thoughtlessness or a misunderstanding, so do your best not to take everything they say to heart. And try not to feel resentful if you are also not receiving much in return. Think: I will take as much as I give. 

Keep in mind that this is an ongoing process. These things don’t happen overnight, especially with family members. The whole family system may have to shift, but it will be beneficial for all. Sometimes, you may find yourself on the receiving end so take it in stride as long as the request is healthy. Boundaries are hard, for both the person setting them and the one on the receiving end. But they do act as a way of connection and can strengthen family bonds. 

Kathleen Weaver-Zech and Dean’s Team Chicago

6 Signs Your Home Has a Drainage Problem

Roofer cleaning a rain gutter with an orange glove on

It’s no secret that any water that’s pooled in any part of your home will cause nothing but problems. And if there are drainage issues in your home, you’ll likely experience these problems pretty quickly. That’s why it’s critical that any drainage issues be nipped in the bud before they turn into total catastrophe. Yet while some issues are obvious, other’s aren’t.

To save yourself the headache and the money trying to fix major problems that arise as a result of poor drainage in your home, keep an eye out for any one of the following 6 red flags.

1. Water Stains

One of the most telling signs that there’s an issue with the drainage in your home is water stains. Whether they’re on the walls, ceilings, or floors, any water stains are surface signs that something awry is lurking where you can’t see.

The location of the water stain will also be an indication of whether or not the problem is the result of surface water, or water moving underground, the latter of which is typically a much bigger problem. If the stain creates a line around the basement, it’s more likely the result of a moving water table. In this case, inquiring about basement waterproofing might be warranted after the issue has been rectified.

2. Spewing Gutters

If you notice that your gutters are running like a raging river, there’s probably something obstructing the free flow along the gutters. Even if you don’t actually see the water gushing out of the gutters, you can still tell this is happening if the grass or dirt at the opening of the gutters seems like it’s been dug out by powerful flows of water, or if you notice mud splatter marks on the exterior walls near the gutters. If this problem persists, you could be dealing with rotted exterior siding or even structural damage.

3. Downspouts That Dump Too Much Water Near the Foundation

The basement of your home can become flooded with water if your downspouts are dumping hoards of rainwater too close to the foundation. As such, the water will make its way into the basement and wreak havoc on the basement walls, floors, and any items you have in the water’s way.

If the downspouts are too short, they can literally dump gallons of water around the foundation walls of your home. As the water is soaked in by the soil, it puts pressure on the walls, and eventually causes them to crack. Adding gutter extensions that help carry the water a minimum of 5 feet away from your foundation walls can really help.

4. Mold in the Attic

The presence of mold in your attic is a sure sign that there’s a drainage problem with your home. It may sound odd that drainage issues can actually show signs of trouble way up in that part of the house, but moisture from the water in the basement can rise up through your home. The bathroom fans and vents will then blow hot, damp air right into the attic space, which can cause mold and mildew when it condenses on the colder side of the roof. Failure to deal with this issue early on can lead to rotted roof sheathing and shingles, which would then need to be replaced.

5. Crusting on Basement Walls

Any flaking or crusting on your basement walls could very well be a sign that your home’s drainage is inadequate. This crusting is caused by the mineral deposit residue that is left behind after water has evaporated and condenses. This might not necessarily be a huge problem if these deposits go no deeper than half an inch. Any more than that, however, could spell real trouble that may involve a compromised foundational structure.

6. Cracks on the Foundation Wall

It’s normal for foundation walls to experience cracks over the years as the house settles after being built. However, any cracks that are very wide – over 1/8 of an inch – or that are uneven might need a closer look into what could be causing them. It might very well be a drainage problem behind these cracks. If that’s the case, you’ll need to find out what exactly is behind the inadequate drainage and fix it.

The Bottom Line

If you notice any one of the above signs, you should deal with them immediately. A qualified plumber or structural engineer will be able to suggest the best course of action to fix the problem before it gets any worse. Identifying drainage problems when they’re not as serious and are easier to rectify can save you a lot of hassle and thousands of dollars over the long haul.

THIS WEEKEND IN CHICAGO – Gearing Up for the Upcoming Holidays!

This weekend, Chicagoans will be gearing up for the upcoming holidays since this year all our traditional holiday events are back better than ever!  And believe me, there’s plenty to choose from as you’ll see in my upcoming weekend blogs.

Here are two markets that offer items you can’t find in stores to get a head start on your holiday shopping:

Aligned with the 110th annual Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony that took place Friday evening, the Millennium Park Holiday Art Market will be open this Saturday (12 p.m.-8 p.m.) and Sunday (12 p.m.-5 p.m.) at the Chase Promenade North tent in the Loop.  This market features dozens of local artists selling a variety of items including jewelry, drawings, paintings, pottery, and more!  Plus, vendors from a variety of arts organizations, holiday themed food, hot drinks, cocktails, and live music will be featured as well!

Returning to Chicago for a special holiday shopping event is Markets for Makers this Saturday and Sunday (10 a.m.-5 p.m.) at Artifact Events (4325 N. Ravenswood Ave.) in the Ravenswood neighborhood.  This market features over 90 handmade makers and boutiques selling vintage and unique items along with a Free DIY station, photo walls to create memorable experiences, and a free tote bag to fill with goods from the small businesses.  There’s also food trucks and a bar if you need to take a break as well as free street parking!

Chicago’s two traditional German-style markets return this holiday season as well:

The Christkindlmarket located at Daley Plaza (50 W. Washington St.) in the Loop opens this Sunday (11 a.m.-8 p.m.) and runs through December 24th.  This free outdoor holiday market offers international and local food, a unique shopping experience, live entertainment, family-friendly events, and inter-cultural activities.  And don’t forget to quench your thirst with an imported German beer or warm up with a cup of Glühwein (hot spiced wine) served in their popular collectible souvenir mug!

The Christkindlmarket Wrigleyville is a smaller-scale version of the traditional, authentic market and is located at Gallagher Way (3637 N. Clark St.) running from Saturday (11 a.m.-10 p.m.) and Sunday (11 a.m.-7 p.m.) through the end of the year with as much holiday cheer as its downtown market!

Kick off the official start of the holiday season at this year’s Magnificent Mile Lights Festival this Saturday.  The Lights Festival Lane will be open from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. which is a festive thoroughfare of booths and free family activities all at Pioneer Court (401 N. Michigan Ave.) and includes the Wintrust Pavilion, Dunkin’, Eli’s Cheesecake, the Illinois Lottery, and much more!  The parade then begins at 5:30 p.m. with Grand Marshals Mickey Mouse and Minnie Mouse followed by a procession of floats, giant helium balloons, marching bands, celebrity performances, and of course Santa Claus!  In addition, the culmination of this holiday celebration will take place over the Chicago River with the Wintrust Fireworks Spectacular at 7 p.m.!

Finally, it’s turkey time!  Chicago’s Thanksgiving Day Parade will take place on Thursday, November 23, from 8 a.m. to 11 a.m. down State Street from Ida B. Wells Drive to Randolph Street in the Loop.  A local tradition for more than 25 years, this year’s parade will feature acrobats, equestrians, marching bands, and the return of larger-than-life helium balloons!  Plus, you’ll have plenty of time to get home to enjoy your Thanksgiving feast!!

Have a Happy “Gobble” Day!

Sue Moss and Dean’s Team Chicago

Neighborhood News: Experience a winter miracle in Old Town’s ‘Immersive Nutcracker’

Christmas Nutcracker toy soldier and balerina dolls on the stage

One hallmark of every holiday season is the performance of ‘The Nutcracker.’ For 130 years,  Peter Ilyich Tchaikovsky’s classic ballet has been a Christmas tradition everywhere.

Now, thanks to the company that gave us ‘Immersive Van Gogh’ and ‘Immersive Mozart,’ the magic that is West Town’s Lighthouse ArtSpace Chicago, 108 W. Germania PIace, brings Chicagoans Immersive Nutcracker: A Winter Miracle.’  The show runs from Friday, November 24 through Sunday, January 7.

The Story of ‘The Nutcracker’ 

As the Chicago Loop Alliance describes it, ‘The Nutcracker’ is based on E.T.A. Hoffman’s 1816 fairy tale ‘The Nutcracker and the Mouse King.’ 

As Smithsonian Magazine recounts, the story involves a little girl, Marie (some who follow the ballet may know her as Clara), who, through the conjuring of her godfather, Herr Drosselmeier, is given a nutcracker doll who becomes a prince, (as well as) a Christmas tree that grows like Jack’s beanstalk, toy soldiers battling mice, and a blizzard,” wrote Laura Jacobs for Vanity Fair. “Act Two alights in the Land of Sweets, where the Sugarplum Fairy reigns.” 
Sweeping music features iconic selections like “The March of the Toys” and “The Dance of the Sugar Plum Fairy” as they are immersed in holiday wonder. 

The Nutcracker has become a holiday classic, taking the form of ballets, films and more. 

Expansive Technology 

The Immersive Nutcracker: A Winter Miracle is the newest rendition of this timeless classic, using the latest projection mapping technology. According to their website, the 30-minute, immersive experience of whimsical animated characters alongside footage of professional ballet dancers is composed of over 1 million frames of video across 500,000 cubic feet, captivating audiences from opening scene to the epic finale. 

Lighthouse Immersive was founded in 2019 by Toronto-based producers, Corey Ross and Svetlana Dvoretsky and Toronto-based developer – Slava Zheleznyakov, Lighthouse Immersive is the first experiential entertainment multi-plex, aiming to cultivate community and creativity through large-scale events and exhibitions of all art forms. For tickets and information, click here.

Alison Moran-Powers and Dean’s Team Chicago

Restaurant Review: Thanksgiving Day Feasts under $100 per person in Chicago

Roasted turkey garnished with cranberries on a rustic style table decoraded with pumpkins, vegetables, pie, flowers, and candles

The Thanksgiving holiday honors early settlers and Native Americans who came together to have a historic harvest feast in 1621.  That first meal, according to National Geographic for Kids, consisted of deer, corn, shellfish, and roasted meat.

But, according to National Geographic, it wasn’t until 1863 that President Abraham Lincoln declared two national Thanksgivings; one in August to commemorate the Battle of Gettysburg during the Civil War, and the other in November to give thanks for “general blessings. In the centuries since, Thanksgiving has become a day when families and friends get together in celebration.

Chicago offers many reasons not to cook this Thanksgiving, on Thursday, November 23. As per Dean’s Team Chicago tradition, we have compiled a short list of area restaurants serving sumptuous feasts for under $100 per person that still have reservations available. This is, by no means, all that are available, but we made sure to include the restaurants offering the best variety for the price.

Reserve your Thanksgiving feast at the Gold Coast’s Brass Tack,11 E. Walton, and indulge in a three-course, traditional American brasserie fare for $85 per person. Start with fresh-made Parker House rolls, followed by your choice of Butternut Squash Bisque accompanied by roasted pepitas and spiced crema, or Green Bean Salad with burrata, tomato, Marcona almonds, frisée, and mint, drizzled with sherry vinaigrette. Entrees include their classic BT Turkey Dinner with brown sugar-bourbon glazed turkey, poblano mashed potatoes, green beans, cornbread dressing, pineapple-cranberry chutney, and savory gravy. Or, their Prime Prime Rib, served with creamed spinach, loaded Hasselback potatoes, and au jus. Ora King Salmon is accompanied by turnips, salt-baked onions, and orange miso.

Save room for their Cognac Pumpkin Cheesecake with a chocolate crust, candied walnuts, and a drizzle of salted caramel. For reservations, click here.

From 11 am until 8 pm, all Francesca’s locations—River North, Lakeview, and suburbs, will host a Thanksgiving Feast Buffet “with an Italian twist.” Chicago Food Magazine notes that you and your family can treat yourselves to an unlimited spread of turkey, ham, artichoke stuffing, rigatoni vodka, salads and a variety of sides. The $49.95 per adult and $14.95 for children aged 12 and under are among the lowest prices we’ve found. Their location on Chestnut has availability through early afternoon as of Tuesday, Mia Francesca’s in Lakeview is still wide open. To make reservations on Open Table, click here.

River North’s Bistronomic, 840 N. Wabash, is offering an $85 per person, three-course menu “with a French accent.” They are featuring a traditional Roasted Farm Turkey Breast served with chestnut stuffing, garlic pomme puree, glazed orange cranberries, haricot vert and verjus sauce. Catch of the Day, Prime Beef Short Ribs, and homemade Vegetarian Tortellini. Appetizers include a choice of Veloute of the Day, Terrine of the Day, Artisanal Smoked Salmon Salad or the Chioggia and Yellow Beet Salad. Desserts include a ‘traditional’ Thanksgiving Dessert, the French Lemon Tart or Chocolate Hazelnut Bars. They note that “The Regular Menu is NOT available!” For reservations, click here.

At Swedish-inspired Ann Sather, their three locations in Lakeview and Edgewater are serving a Thanksgiving Dinner for $30.95 per person, including Chicken Vegetable Soup, Roasted Turkey and Dressing, Mashed Potatoes and Giblet Gravy, Fresh Seasonal Vegetables, Cranberry Sauce, Assorted Homemade Breads, and Homemade Apple or Pumpkin Pie with Whipped Cream. They start serving dinner at 11am. Their 909 W. Belmont location is open 7am–5pm, 3415 N. Broadway is open 7am–3pm, and their 1147 W. Granville Avenue location is open 7am–3pm. No reservations are accepted. For more information, click here. 

Alison Moran-Powers and Dean’s Team Chicago

Chicago Home and Lifestyles – Stress Free Holiday

Close up of African American family gathering for Thanksgiving dinner at dining table

If you’re taking on Thanksgiving this year, don’t panic! With some organization you can pull this off with a minimum of fuss. From getting the house ready to the actual meal, here are some guidelines and handy tips to make everything go smoothly:

Get help. Now is the time to get a little help! A house cleaning service is not as expensive as you think. It’s worth the money to have the house cleaned professionally before guests arrive. Ask friends and family for referrals or maybe your friendly neighborhood Realtor! If guests offer help, take it. From appetizers, liquor, or side dishes, you’ll be happier if you accept the help. I often ask people to bring drinks and desserts. There’s more variety that way and it really helps. 

Create a list. Next is your master list. I am a paper person, so I use a yellow legal pad. Of course, your phone or a tablet will work well too. The first list will be the menu, including everything from appetizers, drinks and snacks to every menu item for dinner. On the first column on the left list every dish. Next column write down everything needed to prepare the dish. Include everything like spices and herbs too. This will be your shopping list. Now is a good time to buy fresh spices and dried herbs. They are always the best fresh, so this is the time to buy.  Highlight items you need to purchase. Shop for all your non-perishables early. If using a frozen turkey, give yourself enough time for safe thawing. A large bird can take several days. Shop for perishables 2 days before. 

Organize. Take your menu list and organize all pots, pans and utensils needed for preparation. It’s not good to need another pot on Thanksgiving morning! All the stores have these items on sale now, along with dishes and serving pieces. Next, organize the table. Clean off the dining room table and put every serving dish you will need there. Appetizers, snacks, and all menu items with serving tools for each. Add plates, glassware and utensils for each guest. Cover with a clean sheet to keep the dust off. 

Prepare drinks. If you are having cocktails, arrange a bar area on a decently sized table. Include mixers along with 3 or 4 different bottles of liquor. Glassware including wine, rocks and tall glasses for mixed drinks. Use a nice ice bucket for drinks. Keep beer and soda in a cooler with ice. Most of this can be set up early in the week and again covered to keep clean. 

Schedule and time everything. Prepare your day by scheduling at least a week ahead. Make note of every menu item, what time it needs to be started and when it will be done. Some things can be prepared early and either frozen or kept in the refrigerator. Dips, rolls, vegetable dishes, stuffing, casseroles and appetizers can all be made days in advance. For example, mashed potatoes can be prepared and kept warm in a slow cooker, just add a little hot cream and butter before serving. Many items cooked in the morning can be warmed in the microwave just before serving. 

If you want to get through this holiday stress free, be as organized as possible! Don’t forget to accept help from others, before and on the big day. Many hands make light work as the old saying goes. You should be able to have some fun too and enjoy the day with your guests. Does anyone else have holiday hints for a smooth and fun day?  

Kathleen Weaver-Zech and Dean’s Team Chicago

Private Showings Vs. Open Houses: Which Wins?

Real estate agent showing a couple around new home

Looking for a new home? Before you sign on the dotted line, you’re going to want to have a chance or two to scope out a few homes in detail first. That means you’ll either want to schedule a private showing, or visit an open house. But which route should you take to find out if that home is right for you?

Let’s dig deeper to find out which of the two is a better approach for you when you’re ready to buy a house.

The Open House

If you’re not ready to buy just yet, and aren’t sure about exactly which neighborhood you want, open houses can be great.

Open houses can be an effective way to chat up the listing agent and find out important information about the home, and even the sellers. You might be able to find out why the sellers are moving in the first place – whether it’s a job relocation, divorce, or other reason. If you discover that the seller is highly motivated, you may have more negotiating power when it comes to wheeling and dealing on an offer.

Open houses can give you access to a lot more pertinent information than you might think. Besides getting to stroll around every room of a home and scoping out all the details, you can also get a sense of the competition that you might be facing and get a grasp of prices in the area.

Assessing the type of traffic might be tough to figure out, however. If there are tons of people venturing in and out of the house you happen to be in too, it could mean that there is some serious interest in that particular property, and that you may need to think about whether or not you should be putting in an offer before someone else does. On the other hand, the traffic could be just a bunch if nosy neighbors or people who enjoy spending their Sundays having a gander at how others live.

The Private Showing

When it comes to really getting a sense of what a home is like, you’ll ideally want to have a private showing scheduled. That way, you can take your time looking about without having to be distracted and interrupted by hoards of traffic.

It’ll also give you a chance to speak frankly about the property with your agent, come up with a strategy for submitting an offer, and ask all the pertinent questions about the place that you might be apprehensive about asking with others within earshot of your conversation.

Scheduling a showing also allows you to see the exact house you want, when you want (for the most part). There’s no need for the home buying process to be a gamble – instead, you can schedule a showing for a particular home you are interested in, during a time frame that’s more convenient for you.

Private showing allow you the freedom to really explore a home, which you usually can’t do during an open house. It would be sort of awkward to crawl into attic spaces or turn on faucets and flush toilets with a bunch of strangers around. With private showings, you can eliminate this concern.

At the end of the day, whether or not an open house or private viewing is better than the other depends on how serious you are about buying. If you’re half-hearted about purchasing, then start off with an open house or two. But of you’ve already scoped out a bunch of listings and have gained a focused sense of what you want, and you’re ready to make the move, private showings are absolutely the way to go.